An Epidemic?

For the past couple of weeks two of my good girlfriends have been in dating bliss. They have been going to movies, going to dinner, they have been in a "relationship" of sorts. They where both so happy, and of course they took every opportunity to tell me about their latest great date.

Finally I thought, no drama, they are content, and that makes me happy. Albeit it makes my life a little less exciting when one of them is not calling or coming over to gripe about their own latest disaster. But the important thing is they are happy, and they where.

Then, both of them started encountering the same problems with theirs "guys". Not calling back when they said they where going to, not calling them at all, and definitely not trying to make future dates with them. Of course this called for a conference on my front porch, complete with two bottles of wine. Their stories where so similar it was shocking. And the crazy thing is, after hearing both stories, the three of us can't seem to figure out what and when it went wrong..

They followed the "rules" if you believe in that bs. They are good girls, they aren't crazy, bitchy, promiscuous, etc. So what happened? We are still wondering ourselves. It's like an epidemic. These two situations happened at the exact same time, and they happened in the exact same way. Everything is fun and exciting, and the next it's cold and almost nonexistent. Of course the only thing to do is plan a raging girls night out as soon as possible, but still they are left wondering if it was something they did. These two smart, classy, beautiful girls are actually spending time wondering what they did wrong when he never called back. Funny how that happens.

I wonder if guys ever sit and wonder why she didn't call back? We seriously doubt it.
PS. Today is my 50th post!!!